rose in bloom - What's next?

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 What's next?




It's a very interesting journey, this “trying to find yourself”. More especially when you try to find the real person hidden under that camouflage that people call “excess weight” or “obesity”.

Mind you, those two descriptions are now included in my bag of unwanted words, and I do my best to ignore them. Yet I've used them here, because many women will still be hearing these words said about them, and even if they are honest, sometimes will even say them against and about themselves. We must not be unkind to the essence of our womanhood - the real person inside. We can even learn to look at ourselves as a landscape painting - foreground, background and every cuddly bit in between!

There's quite enough discrimination and negativity out there in the world against people of size, without us adding weight to the problem!  Excuse the pun, but that's what it is. The world, in spite of all the anger and hostility and ridicule and ignorance displayed by others to women like us - size 16 plus! - is quite a wonderful place. If that is so, then we must learn to look at ourselves as wonderful, beautiful, human beings, an integral part of this wonderful place and thing we call life.

  • I now understand more clearly what it is to be BIG.  
  • I now understand what I can do to build upon my personal happiness, to be healthy and fulfilled and content as a woman.  
  • I also have an understanding of what it is to be categorised as being too small, too tall, too short, too thin.  

The minute we stop classifying ourselves as this, that or the other, and see ourselves as warm, vibrant, intelligent, articulate, sensual women, then the closer we'll be understanding even more the unique place we hold in life.



My Objective?

I owe myself the prerogative and ability to extend myself to learn more about me and to appreciate and respect myself and others more


What I gained!

Understanding that I can do certain things without feeling guilty, because I now understand who and what I am - ME.




"Rose In Bloom" - © Copyright 2002-2020, Rosemary Parry-Brock, Australia


(Please bear in mind this booklet was first printed in the 1990s.  Compare that with today's attitudes.)


Copyright © R Parry-Brock, 2002 
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